Quote of the Day: "To different minds, the same world is a hell, and a heaven." - J. B. Priestley

Quote of the Day: "To different minds, the same world is a hell, and a heaven." - J. B. Priestley
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July 31, 2018 at 01:04AM
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Quote of the Day: "You will never win if you never begin." - Helen Rowland

Quote of the Day: "You will never win if you never begin." - Helen Rowland
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July 30, 2018 at 01:02AM
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Quote of the Day: "This is the precept by which I have lived: Prepare for the worst; expect the best; and take what comes." - Hannah Arendt

Quote of the Day: "This is the precept by which I have lived: Prepare for the worst; expect the best; and take what comes." - Hannah Arendt
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July 29, 2018 at 01:14AM
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Today’s Stoic: Treat Everyone With Respect, Even When You’re Frustrated...

One of the most interesting and personal parts of Marcus Aurelius’s Meditations is Book I, which consists entirely of his private gratitudes to friends and family. Marcus was particularly grateful and in awe of Antoninus, his adopted father and the Emperor of Rome who preceded Marcus. He points out the man’s “compassion,” his “constancy to friends--never getting up up with them,” and his unfailing dedication to the empire. He also writes that Antoninus “never exhibited rudeness, lost control of himself, or turned violent. No one ever saw him sweat.” These are all virtues verified by the historical record. But the most intriguing remark is Marcus’s reference to the way that Antoninus “accepted the customs agent’s apology at Tusculum.” We have no other details about this exchange, but given what we know about Marcus and Antoninus, here’s a guess: there was probably a miscommunication between the customs agent and the emperor. Perhaps the agent spoke to the emperor imprudently, or perhaps he failed to recognize who he was dealing with and accidently gave this powerful man a hard time. Given that Marcus praises Antoninus’s lack of arrogance, it stands to reason that he responded to this inconvenience kindly and forgivingly, that he didn’t get upset, and instead was understanding and respectful, even if he hadn’t been treated with the proper respect himself. While the rest of us aren’t emperors, we should do well to remember this example. How we treat the people we encounter in the course of an ordinary day matters--the waiters, the toll booth operators, the customer service representatives, the police officers, the cleanup crews. These people make the world go round. And yes, they are also human. They have bad days. They make mistakes. They don’t know who you are or what problems their policies or decisions might cause in your life, and even if they did they usually have very little decision-making power to change them anyway. Getting upset, yelling, treating them like dirt? This is embarrassing. To you. And something no other person should have to put up with. We could all get better at this. Especially us Stoics who claim to hold ourselves to high standards. Some people get so angry about issues with their orders with the Daily Stoic store it seems like they might pop a vein. On the one hand, it’s understandable. They paid for something. They want it. Makes total sense. But if you knew you were going to die tomorrow, would you spend all this time getting upset that your memento mori coin was delayed? If you really believed in amor fati, would a package caught in customs or a slightly damaged order be that big of a problem? If you were actually combatting your ego, would you dare speak to anyone in the tone you speak to the faceless person on the other side of your customer service complaint? Especially to a small little operation, not some faceless multinational conglomerate. The answer to all this is no. The Stoic in us should strive to be like Antoninus--that is, to not be rude, to not lose control, and to be forgiving and tolerant when things don’t go your way. Everyone has bad days, we all have limits, but we should do our best to always treat everyone we encounter with respect, even if they frustrate us, make mistakes, or keep us from getting what we want. Most likely, they’re trying their best too. And if we remember that, it will help us keep our cool and get closer to being the kind of person we’d want to be if any of those calls “recorded for training purposes” were ever made public.

Signing off for this week good citizens, have a safe and blessed weekend everyone! SM1/JoMike

Signing off for this week good citizens, have a safe and blessed weekend everyone! SM1/JoMike
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July 27, 2018 at 10:00PM
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#FollowFriday to all my great followers. :)

#FollowFriday to all my great followers. :)
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July 27, 2018 at 11:00AM
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Quote of the Day: "Laziness may appear attractive, but work gives satisfaction." - Anne Frank

Quote of the Day: "Laziness may appear attractive, but work gives satisfaction." - Anne Frank
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July 27, 2018 at 01:09AM
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TODAY’S STOIC... There are some conspicuous gaps in the writings of Marcus Aurelius, Seneca and Epictetus. They don’t talk much about love, about laughter, about how to be a good spouse or parent. They don’t talk about having a good time or the joy of experiencing (or creating) art. Despite what critics--and small-minded philosophy professors--might think, this is not because the Stoics didn’t think these things were important. It’s simply that they thought these things were obvious and came naturally enough that they didn’t require much teaching. As Seneca wrote, “No one learns to lie down contentedly in a bed of roses, if the need arises, but rather we steel ourselves for this: to not betray a confidence under torture, or to stand guard, though wounded, through the night if the need arises, without even leaning on an upright spear, since sleep has a way of sneaking up on those who lean against some support." In other words: We practice what we need the most help on and we don’t waste time reviewing what we already have handled. Pleasure comes easy. Dealing with life when everything is going well, that’s easy. The purpose of Stoic writing is to aid us in the times that aren’t easy, when things aren’t going well. Marcus made the same point when he talked about putting the effort into what seems impossible--to develop skills with your left hand because your right hand is already dominant enough. So remember, while these writings might seem like they focus on a few dark themes (death, loss, pain, temptation, self-control), it’s not because life is dark and without joy. On the contrary, there is much light and joy out there. That’s actually the problem. We can get so distracted by the pleasantness, what we wish life was like all the time, that we ignore in our training the essential preparations for the not-so-pleasant moments. We don’t need help appreciating the beauty of a rose. But for the other stuff? Well, we’re practicing and preparing for it so we don’t get snuck up on

TODAY’S STOIC... There are some conspicuous gaps in the writings of Marcus Aurelius, Seneca and Epictetus. They don’t talk much about love, about laughter, about how to be a good spouse or parent. They don’t talk about having a good time or the joy of experiencing (or creating) art. Despite what critics--and small-minded philosophy professors--might think, this is not because the Stoics didn’t think these things were important. It’s simply that they thought these things were obvious and came naturally enough that they didn’t require much teaching. As Seneca wrote, “No one learns to lie down contentedly in a bed of roses, if the need arises, but rather we steel ourselves for this: to not betray a confidence under torture, or to stand guard, though wounded, through the night if the need arises, without even leaning on an upright spear, since sleep has a way of sneaking up on those who lean against some support." In other words: We practice what we need the most help on and we don’t waste time reviewing what we already have handled. Pleasure comes easy. Dealing with life when everything is going well, that’s easy. The purpose of Stoic writing is to aid us in the times that aren’t easy, when things aren’t going well. Marcus made the same point when he talked about putting the effort into what seems impossible--to develop skills with your left hand because your right hand is already dominant enough. So remember, while these writings might seem like they focus on a few dark themes (death, loss, pain, temptation, self-control), it’s not because life is dark and without joy. On the contrary, there is much light and joy out there. That’s actually the problem. We can get so distracted by the pleasantness, what we wish life was like all the time, that we ignore in our training the essential preparations for the not-so-pleasant moments. We don’t need help appreciating the beauty of a rose. But for the other stuff? Well, we’re practicing and preparing for it so we don’t get snuck up on
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July 26, 2018 at 10:02AM
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Quote of the Day: "I never think of the future - it comes soon enough." - Albert Einstein

Quote of the Day: "I never think of the future - it comes soon enough." - Albert Einstein
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July 26, 2018 at 01:08AM
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Quote of the Day: "Hope is but the dream of those who wake." - Matthew Prior

Quote of the Day: "Hope is but the dream of those who wake." - Matthew Prior
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July 25, 2018 at 01:09AM
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Quote of the Day: "You have succeeded in life when all you really want is only what you really need." - Vernon Howard

Quote of the Day: "You have succeeded in life when all you really want is only what you really need." - Vernon Howard
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July 24, 2018 at 01:09AM
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Gr8 to be your friend...!

Gr8 to be your friend...!
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July 23, 2018 at 10:49AM
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Quote of the Day: "Blessed is the man, who having nothing to say, abstains from giving wordy evidence of the fact." - George Eliot

Quote of the Day: "Blessed is the man, who having nothing to say, abstains from giving wordy evidence of the fact." - George Eliot
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July 23, 2018 at 01:03AM
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